Adapting Therapy with an Eclectic Approach
- Keren Drits, LPC, NCC
- Sep 28
- 4 min read
When it comes to therapy, one size definitely does not fit all. Have you ever wondered why some counseling methods work wonders for one child or teen but seem less effective for another? That’s because every individual is unique, and their challenges require personalized care. I want to share how adapting therapy using an eclectic approach can make a real difference in helping children, adolescents, and parents thrive.
Therapy is not just about following a strict set of rules or techniques. It’s about understanding the person sitting across from you and tailoring the approach to fit their needs. This is especially important when working with families, where dynamics can be complex and emotions run deep. So, how do we make therapy flexible and effective? Let’s dive in.
Exploring Different Counseling Methods Overview
You might be curious about the different counseling methods out there. There are many approaches, each with its own strengths. Some focus on thoughts and beliefs, like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). Others explore emotions and past experiences, such as Psychodynamic Therapy. Then there are approaches that emphasize behavior change, like Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA).
But what if a child or teen doesn’t respond well to just one method? Or what if a parent needs a different style of support than their child? This is where combining methods can be powerful. By blending techniques, therapists can address multiple aspects of a person’s experience.
For example, a therapist might use CBT to help a teen manage anxiety while also incorporating play therapy to make sessions more engaging and less intimidating. Or, with parents, a mix of solution-focused strategies and family systems therapy can improve communication and problem-solving.
Here are some common counseling methods you might hear about:
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Focuses on changing negative thought patterns.
Play Therapy: Uses play to help children express feelings.
Family Systems Therapy: Looks at family dynamics and relationships.
Solution-Focused Therapy: Concentrates on finding practical solutions.
Mindfulness-Based Therapy: Encourages present-moment awareness and stress reduction.
Each method has its place, but the real magic happens when we adapt and combine them thoughtfully.

What is the Technical Eclectic Approach?
You might be wondering, what exactly is the technical eclectic approach? It’s a style of therapy where the therapist selects techniques from different counseling methods based on what fits best for the client’s unique situation. Instead of sticking to one theory or model, the therapist uses a toolbox of strategies.
This approach is practical and flexible. It allows the therapist to respond to changing needs during therapy. For example, a child struggling with both anxiety and behavioral issues might benefit from a mix of CBT techniques and behavioral interventions. The therapist doesn’t have to choose one method and ignore the others.
The technical eclectic approach is not random mixing. It’s a thoughtful process where the therapist carefully considers which tools will be most effective. This means the therapy is personalized, dynamic, and responsive.
Here’s how it works in practice:
Assessment: Understand the child’s or family’s needs, strengths, and challenges.
Selection: Choose techniques from various methods that address those needs.
Application: Use the selected techniques in sessions, adjusting as progress is made.
Evaluation: Continuously check what’s working and what needs to change.
This approach can be especially helpful for children and teens who may not respond well to traditional therapy or who have complex issues requiring multiple angles of support.

Why Choose an Eclectic Therapeutic Approach?
You might ask, why not just stick to one counseling method? The truth is, life is complicated. Emotions, behaviors, and relationships don’t always fit neatly into one category. That’s why I often use an eclectic therapeutic approach in my work.
This approach allows me to meet children, teens, and parents where they are. It respects their individuality and adapts to their pace. For example, a shy child might start with art therapy to build trust and then gradually move into talk therapy. A parent might benefit from coaching techniques alongside family therapy to improve communication at home.
The benefits of this approach include:
Flexibility: Tailors therapy to the client’s changing needs.
Comprehensive Care: Addresses multiple aspects of mental health.
Engagement: Uses methods that resonate with the client’s personality and preferences.
Effectiveness: Increases the chances of positive outcomes by combining strengths of different methods.
If you’re supporting a child or teen, or navigating parenting challenges, this approach can feel more natural and less intimidating. It’s about finding what works best for your family.
Practical Tips for Families Navigating Therapy
Starting therapy can feel overwhelming. You might wonder how to choose the right therapist or what to expect. Here are some practical tips to help you feel more confident and prepared:
Ask About the Therapist’s Approach: Don’t hesitate to ask if they use an eclectic approach or tailor methods to each client.
Be Open About Your Goals: Share what you hope to achieve in therapy for your child or family.
Observe How Your Child Responds: Notice if your child feels comfortable and engaged during sessions.
Communicate Regularly: Keep in touch with the therapist about progress and any concerns.
Encourage Participation: Support your child in practicing skills learned in therapy at home.
Remember, therapy is a journey. It’s okay to try different approaches until you find the right fit. The goal is to create a safe space where healing and growth can happen.

Embracing Growth and Change Together
Therapy is not just about fixing problems. It’s about building resilience, understanding emotions, and strengthening relationships. By adapting therapy with an eclectic approach, we open the door to personalized care that truly meets the needs of children, adolescents, and parents.
If you’re ready to explore therapy that adapts to your family’s unique story, know that support is available. Together, we can navigate challenges, improve communication, and foster emotional well-being so everyone can thrive.
Remember, every step forward is progress. And with the right approach, therapy can be a positive, empowering experience for your whole family.
If you want to learn more about how an eclectic approach can help your family, feel free to reach out. Bright Futures Therapy is here to support you every step of the way.
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